Ash Wednesday · Wednesday, February 10
Remember: you are dust, and you are loved
Begin
Make the sign of the cross if you like, the way Luther taught households to begin: touch your forehead, your chest, then one shoulder and the other. Then say:
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
Amen.
Read
Jesus teaches about praying, giving and fasting: do it quietly, for God, not to be seen.
Read Matthew 6:1–6, 16–21
1 “Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. 2 Therefore when you do merciful deeds, don’t sound a trumpet before yourself, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may get glory from men. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. 3 But when you do merciful deeds, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand does, 4 so that your merciful deeds may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly. 5 “When you pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Most certainly, I tell you, they have received their reward. 6 But you, when you pray, enter into your inner room, and having shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.
16 “Moreover when you fast, don’t be like the hypocrites, with sad faces. For they disfigure their faces, that they may be seen by men to be fasting. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. 17 But you, when you fast, anoint your head, and wash your face; 18 so that you are not seen by men to be fasting, but by your Father who is in secret, and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you. 19 “Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; 20 but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; 21 for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
World English Bible, public domain. The whole chapter on Free Scripture → · Read in the NRSVue, the ELCA’s standard translation →
For little ones: “Jesus says, do good things quietly. God sees.”
Choose together
Lent lasts forty days, not counting Sundays. Which one thing will our family try?
- Pray together at bedtime
- Put coins in a jar, to give away at Easter
- No screens at dinner
- One kind thing for someone each week
Or, a simpler one: Point to one.
Pick just one. You can change it later.
Pray
From Psalm 51, the prayer the church says on this day. Say a line, and let them say it after you.
Create in me a clean heart, O God.Renew a right spirit within me. Amen.
In plain words God, help me want what is good, and help me start again.
Psalm 51:10, World English Bible.
This week
Many churches hold a short Ash Wednesday service where the pastor marks a small cross of ashes on each forehead and says words from Genesis: “You are dust, and you shall return to dust.” Children are welcome. If touch or crowds are hard, you can ask for a blessing without ashes, sit near the back, or just watch.
In plain words It can sound sad. It means our lives are short, and God holds every one of them.